happy songs, my stress relievers

One of the reasons why I opted to do freelancing is to avoid stressful situations that usually happen in regular office settings. ..

...But I was wrong! Because contrary to my initial thoughts on freelancing, it actually is stressful. I juggle two jobs at the moment and everyday just gets so tizzy, teehee.. despite the everyday stress that I experience though, I actually feel great and I always look forward to my next classes and next writing sets. And to help me de-stress, I listen to happy songs. After handling say 6 or 7 continuous classes or after accomplishing a set, I listen to these songs and I just feel good in no time.

One of my favorite "happy songs" at the moment is this...




xoxo. =D

Hello again, blog!

I've not blogged for months.. I missed it! Good thing, I still remember my password. heheh.. I swore in my last post that I'd find time to update this but my two freelance jobs and family responsibilities kept me from doing so... This time, though, no excuses. I'll blog as often as I can. I've been meaning to do the Project 365 but I couldn't commit. I'll probably just start the project next year or on my birthday...

This is all that I have today. Please spare me as I have not slept well for days already. I promise to come back with more exciting or interesting stories. I hope. =)))


xoxo.

resurrection

the past four months haven't been easy for me. these months seem to have just passed me by. i don't really know what happened in between January to April. everything seems so fuzzy that i feel like i've wasted so much time!

here are some of the highlights of those four months though:

• i resigned from my job. (boy i miss being a Quality Specialist)
• i didn't take the comprehensive exam again because my shift to another program is not effective until next term
• i did something stupid in the name of love (grinning here) and i don't want to delve into details anymore
• i resumed my stint as a freelance writer
• still trying to figure out/contemplating what my plans are for the next three months
• i have been working out (doing yoga and weight-lifting) and i've been trying to stop smoking. So far, i'm down to 1-3 sticks a day now. That's an improvement, isn't it?
• i'm happier. i don't think and worry too much anymore. ;)

i guess time management is still a problem of mine. but that doesn't mean i can't do anything about it. and besides, i have my whole lifetime to accomplish everything that i want to do. looking back, the last four months made me realize not to take each day for granted, to procrastinate and settle for medioctrity.

having said that, i think i need to revisit the lectures that were given to us when i was still a QS. they were like moving forces that make me want to be a better me... i think i need to write more often in this blog as well coz it's a form of reflection for me.

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three years ago, i decided to take a leap in my career. i enrolled in graduate school and this was the essay that i submitted as part of the application process. i got this while browsing through my school files and i want to share it with you. three years have passed already, i still have two more years to actually make my dreams substantiate. =)

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Charisma Grace Oliveros
Masters of Arts in Education major in English Language Education

Five years after, I’m expected to have finished my Masters degree at De La Salle University. Thus, wider horizon and bigger opportunities are in store for me. Personally, I see myself as a better educator, possessing the knowledge and skills acquired from the two-year course. It had been a part of my plans to take graduate studies from a prestigious university to help me improve in the field that I chose. I’ve been working as an English instructor, particularly to Koreans, for more than two years now and I believe that this is a big factor to be admitted in the said program. I have learned some ways/styles in teaching English as a second language. I have also finished a certificate program (ESL Certificate Program) from De La Salle University wherein I had a bird’s eye view of how to teach the second/foreign language to foreign students effectively. Furthermore, I’m a graduate of Journalism at Centro Escolar University and I had gained some knowledge regarding the technicalities of the English language. Pursuing further studies would help me grow more as an English educator. This will also enable me to hasten my English skills and knowledge and would give me the chance to contribute in the promotion of English proficiency in the country.

The Philippines is known to be the third largest English-speaking country after the United States and United Kingdom but according to recent statistics, the Filipino’s English proficiency is declining. I hope to contribute in solving this rising problem through continuous research and studies about the second language and sharing them to other people. I would be able to share the things I’ve learned from these investigations through teaching. Through studying new approaches in teaching English, I would be able to teach English well and help the students to be more adept in the use of the second language. I would also like to study or investigate about the English proficiency or literacy in depressed areas or public schools. This would probably be the focus of my thesis since English proficiency is expected to be low in these areas and I would like to think of ways that could help address and alleviate this issue. I hope to teach ESL students as well. At this age, the Philippines is not just considered as a tourist spot but as an English hub, especially to Koreans. A lot of foreign students opt to study in the Philippines now. I would like to contribute in this endeavor and I could only do that if I’ll have enough knowledge of the second language.

I see this opportunity to study as a career move. I hope to be admitted in the program so that my dreams and plans will materialize. This step will not only benefit me personally but other people as well.

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xoxo..

on mary grace, friends and leaving

before anything else, lemme point out that mary grace is not a person. it's one of those cafes where freshly brewed coffee and mouth-watering baked goodies are available. but what set it apart from the typical cafes is its homey ambiance. i really love their artsy tables and home-like interior! it is this very homey concept that also makes this place a perfect spot to unwind and catch up with friends. and so i didn't wonder why this cafe was chosen as the venue for my so-called reunion with two of my good friends in the office who happened to be my former classmates in graduate school as well--- Kriz and Cookie. actually it was our first get-together after grad school. we never really had the chance to hang out prior that because we were busy making sense of the career that we chose. teehee. anyway, i'm glad that we pushed through with our plan of having a reunion last December 23.

a slice of heaven (forgot the name, sorry)

with friends (Cookie [L]; Krizz [center])

we had a good two-hour talk about our favorite professors, classmates and other memorable experiences in school. we laughed over our booboo's and even the challenges that we faced back then. this was the first time that we got to have a heart-to-heart talk again and i fervently hope that this wasn't the last. but then again, i know it's gonna be difficult now since Cookie has resigned already and i'm on my last month here in the office.. boohoo.

looking back, it's funny because we have planned on the said get-together for so long. but it's just during that time that we decided to really have it since Cookie's last day in the office would be on the next week.oh well, that's life, i guess. sometimes, we do things at the last minute. people say the good things, do the good things and make it up to you when you're already leaving...they just realize your worth when your other foot's already out the door. hmmm,just like when i disclosed my plans of resigning, my colleagues started telling me how they feel about working with me, and that i'm very talented and i'd be very successful in the future. of course it's flattering but come on, i would've appreciated it more if they told me about how they feel during my heydays as a Quality Specialist. but just like what i said, that's life. you only realize the person's worth when you're close to losing them. and that sucks!

500 days of summer

Indeed, this movie is unlike any other love stories 'coz in the first place, it is NOT a love story. It chronicles instead the harsh realities of one-sided love or more commonly and painfully called "unrequitted love," the most ruthless among all kinds of love.

"The boy fell in love, the girl didn't" storyline may be something something new in the reel world but not in the real world. There has been people who have had their share of Tom's love-turned-sob story. At one point, they have loved or will love a person who could never reciprocate the love that they have given or will give. That despite their efforts of making them happy and doing everything to make them stay, the love of their life can't just feel the same about them.

I especially love the confrontation part towards the end. When Tom and Summer met again and the former asked the girl WHY she said that she didn't want to be in a relationship with anyone but is now married. Then, Summer responded with the most heartbreaking answer that I've ever heard...

" I knew with him what I wasn't sure of with you..."

Boohoo.

That simple line has really been seared to my memory. I really felt bad not just for the Tom in the movie, but to all TOMs in the world. Love could really be a blessing to some but it could also be a curse to people who love people that can't love them back. I just hope, that just like Tom in the movie, these TOMs would learn to move on and find their Autumn. ^^

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Tom:This is lies. We are liars. Think about it. Why do people buy cards? It's not because they want to say how they feel. People buy cards because they can't say they feel or are afraid to. And we provide the service that let's them off the hook. You know what? I say to hell with it. Let's level with America. Or at least let them speak for themselves. Right?

"Most days of the year are unremarkable. They begin, and they end, with no lasting memories made in between. Most days have no impact on the course of a life." (Narration)

Summer: Well, you know, I guess it's 'cause I was sitting in a deli and reading Dorian Gray and a guy comes up to me and asks me about it and... now he's my husband.

Tom: Yeah. And... so?

Summer: So, what if I'd gone to the movies? What if I had gone somewhere else for lunch? What if I'd gotten there 10 minutes later? It was - it was meant to be. And... I just kept thinking... Tom was right.

Tom: No.

Summer: Yeah, I did... I did. It just wasn't me that you were right about. =[

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valuable vid

can't help but share this...if you love Desiderata, you'd probably love this as well..




xo,

gifts for keeps

a tweet coming from one of the celebrities that i'm following on twitter goes like this:

"What's the best gift that you received last Christmas?"

So I started enumerating off the top of my head the gifts that i did get. I realized that I could not just give one answer because I had received a lot of meaningful and wonderful gifts during the season. Some of them weren't even part of the wish list that I created but they still made me really happy last Christmas! And, since I also received equally wonderful gifts during my birthday in November, I decided to include them as well on the list of gifts that truly made a mark and touched my heart. But please don't get me wrong, I didn't pick those presents because I don't like the other ones. You have to note that I always appreciate whatever present's given to me especially on special days. The gesture just goes to show that the person remembered me on that day. However, we must admit that there are only a handful that we consider really special. Because unlike the usual shirt, bags and other nifty stuff, they seem to symbolize something. And sometimes, they represent us (do i sound defensive now? hehe).

Here now is the list of the presents that I gush over these days:

1. Vessels of Honor. It's a booklet containing inspirational words and messages that you can reflect on each and every day of the year. It was given to me by my dangat, Joy, on my birthday on November 8. Every morning, before I start working, I make it a point to take a look at the piece of wisdom embedded in each page. Below is a picture of the November 8 message:

2. The Diary of a Wimpy Kid, Do-It-Yourself. I've always loved to write. Much as I love twitter and, of course, blogspot, I miss pouring my thoughts on paper. I miss using the pen as a medium for self-expression as well so for my birthday, I gave myself a present in the form of the said journal. Each page helps you reflect on certain aspect of your life and enables you to envision yourself in the future. Everyone would really just love it since writing on each page is like writing your life story.

3. Inspire by BENCH. This perfume was given by my good friend, Melai, for my birthday. Aside from the person who gave it to me, what made this gift extra special is the fact that you are helping women with breast cancer by just purchasing the item.. Thank you pangga for this special gift. It truly is inspiring!

4. Origami. Our department, Development and Quality, has been emphasizing on creativity and establishing change. Hence, my very creative teammate gave us origami papers as presents. She said it's a way for us to express or enhance our creativity. She also gave us a link to different paper designs and i'm gonna try them real soon! This is a very unique gift that's why I just love it!

5. Who Moved My Cheese? This book about CHANGE was given by another good friend, Cookie, a week before her last day at work. It's indeed a treasure since it gives you tips on how you could adapt to change. Right now, I'm contemplating on the BIG changes that I'll be dealing with some months from now.

6. High-definition life. This is what I received during our "exchange gifts" in the department. It came from my boss who described me as a driven individual or someone who's very keen about her future. Haven't actually read it though but browsing through the pages, reading its preface and some excerpts convinced me that it is indeed a good read. So now that I'm done with Who Moved My Cheese? I could start with the book.

7. Aviator Shades. A post-birthday present from our pup, Leeyow. He's the puppy that we sold a week after my birthday. I was so depressed that time that my partner and I decided to buy something to remember him by. I decided to buy myself a nice pair of sunglasses which is a bit pricey compared to regular ones. I always use it to remember my dear pup.

8. Wedge shoes. I would've bought a pair of gladiator shoes but when I saw this pair, I fell in love. It was indeed love at first sight so I crossed out gladiator shoes in my bucket list and had this one instead. They look so good in jeans and I just feel so pretty wearing them, hehe. I consider them special since it's the first pair of stylish shoes that I bought in my three years of stay in my current job. . .

9. Watch. I've always loved wearing watches since like other people who are always on the go, I'm always conscious of the time. So when my partner's sister came home from abroad and gave me a very chic watch, I was just ecstatic! It's actually a bracelet watch perfect for special events. But because I loved it so much, I use it at work everyday! What makes it extra special is the fact that it was the first gift personally handed over to me by tartie's sister.

10. Coffeemaker. Thanks to my tartie, I could tick this off my wish list. I've always wanted it but never really had the chance to buy it. I was so suprised when she handed it to me since she had convinced me enough that she didn't get me a Christmas present. And so now, I enjoy my morning coffee even more since it comes from something that I had out of love. (shoot, was not able to take a pic pala, hehe..)

11. Family. I guess it's a no-brainer if I say that my family is, has always been, and always will be the best gift given to me. Our simple get-together during the holiday really made the last days of the previous year and first two days of the new year very memorable. My sister abroad and my brother in the province were able to witness the said reunion as well and I'd like to thank modern technology for that. Also, I get to spend time with my second family, Shey's family. Shey amd I are just so happy that everything's falling into place. My family knows about my extra-ordinary relationship and so does my partner's family. I was so elated to finally meet Shey's sister as well. It was a happy new year indeed!

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These gifts are indeed worth treasuring that's why I decided to blog about them. I know that items #1 to 10 would wear out in time so it's good that I have them here. This way, I could always look back and relish the happy memories that these things bring. And of course, along with these gifts, I could also remember the people who gave them. . .

"Every gift which is given, even though small, is in reality great, if it is given with affection."

reminder for next year

Be in the Present
When you want to be happy and successful
Focus on what is right now!

Learn from the Past
When you want to make the present better than the past
Do things differently in the present!

Plan for the Future
When you want to make the future better than the present
Put your plan into action in the present!

--Spencer Johnson

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currently reading: Who Moved My Cheese? by Spencer Johnson

as the new year dawns, it's a good thing to be reading this book. actually, my goal is to finish it before the clock strikes 12 tonight. it's about "CHANGE" and i think it's just very timely since i have a lot of plans for next year. wish me luck!

P.S. I would like to thank my good friend, Cookie, for giving me the book as a going-away present. I will surely miss talking to her at work.

something Christmas-ish

in less than an hour, we'll be celebrating the birthday of Bro, hehe, so I guess it's just right to blog something Christmas-ish (credits to my friend, Winay, for the word)...

to start off, i'm sharing with everyone my all-time favorite Christmas song...

MY GROWN UP CHRISTMAS LIST

Do you remember me
I sat upon your knee
I wrote to you
With childhood fantasies

Well, I'm all grown up now
And still need help somehow
I'm not a child
But my heart still can dream

So here's my lifelong wish
My grown up christmas list
Not for myself
But for a world in need

No more lives torn apart
That wars would never start
And time would heal the heart
And everyone would have a friend
And right would always win
And love would never end oh,
This is my grown up Christmas list

As children we believed
The grandest sight to see
Was something shiny
Wrapped beneath the tree

But heaven only knows
That packages and bows
Can never heal
A hurting human soul

No more lives torn apart
That wars would never start
And time would heal all hearts
And everyone would have a friend
And right would always win
And love would never end
Oh, This is my grown up christmas list

What is this illusion called the innocence of youth
Maybe only in our blind belief can we ever find the truth

No more lives torn apart
That wars would never start
And time would heal all hearts
And everyone would have a friend
And right would always win
And love would never end, oh
This is my grown up christmas list
This is my only life long wish
This is my grown up christmas list




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now, allow me to share with you my very own grown up Christmas list:

1. Clean and honest government
2. Englightened leaders.
3. Cleaner, greener environment
4. That all people devasted by Ondoy and Pepeng be able to recover.. soon.
5. Healing for all those who have loved and lost. Or, those who have lost their loved ones.
6. Peace of mind for everyone.
7. Good health.
8. Steady recovery of the economy. And, more jobs, especially for the poor.
9. Stronger family ties.
10. WORLD PEACE.


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and lastly, here's a wallpaper that vividly depicts the Yuletide season. Since we don't have winter here, I've always loved looking at pictures with snowmen. ^^



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Having said all those, let me greet you once again a HAAAAAPPPPY CHRISTMAS!!!


xoxo.

c & d

thanks to one of my good friends, i finally got recent pics of my two favorite buddies in the morning, Chico and Delamar. i've known this duo since my college days when Brad Turvey was still co-hosting the program but I'm not an active "rusher" ever since. I find enjoyment even just listening to their antics and banters on air. I also love their being witty. It seems like they always have a say on things that I learn new stuff everytime I listen to them. And of course, there's the Top Ten. The segment with the added charm of the hosts really make my day. So, I look forward to more days and even years with C & D.



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xo,

New year gitters

each of us has his or her own private war. in one's lifetime, a person may experience personal blues such as Birthday syndromes, quarter- or mid-life crises and others. the first in the series seems to be the most common. on my part, my internal battle transpires not just on days prior my birthday but also on days before New Year. And so as the next year dawns, my New Year "syndrome," as i fondly call it, kicks off. but now that i'm wiser and, well. older, i try to fight negative thoughts and try to make this syndrome a challenge instead. hence, i started planning on what course to take and set deadlines on the things that i have yet to accomplish for next year. i really don't want to waste any single moment or day of the next year. after all, so many time and moments have been put to waste in the past.

and so just like everyone else, i'm making my New Year's resolutions once again. the last time i made a list of resolutions was years back so here goes nothing...





1. SAVE money! Start up a bank account.
2. Gain weight/exercise regularly. i'll do yoga as religioulsy and regularly as possible.
3. REEEAAAD books regularly.
4. Spend more time with friends and family.
5. Refrain from focusing on bad and negative thoughts. Happy thoughts all the time!^^
6. Write more! Blog more often.
7. TRAVEL! go somewhere far during weekend or holidays.
8. Find a job that I will really enjoy.
9. Finish watching all the TV series that I have started to watch this year: Smallville, Charmed, CSI's, L Word and many others. Oh boy, I really have to watch all seasons of each series.


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speaking of New Year, Christmas is also just around the corner. And since every one's shamelessly plugging their Christmas wishlist, here's mine:

1. BOOKS. (National Bookstore is offering a set of book series. hope someone would get me a set of the Twilight saga, Shopaholic, Harry Potter or Lauren Weisberger's series)

2. SLR camera.. i'm soo drooling over this kind of camera.

3. Coffee maker. i could buy this kitchen must-have anytime but i'm hoping someone will give me one.

4. Little Black Dress (LBD). They say that every girl should have one in her closet. But guess what? I don't have one. Thus, I fervently hope that someone will give me this piece of girl thing.

5. Gladiator sandals. This pair has become very popular since early this year. But, I didn't by myself a pair because I still prefer flip-flops. Next year, I want to perk up my footwear collection with their edgy look.

6. DVD copy or (read:) copies of the movies in my "must-watch list:" Coco before Chanel, 500 days of Summer, The Piano, The Usual Suspects, Lorenzo's Oil, and John Hughes films. Heard that the flicks back in the 80's are unbeatable so I hope someone will grab a copy of any 80's films for me.

7. Rihanna's newest album. Or Lady Gaga's, hehe.. I so love "Bad Romance."

8. Tee with the map of the Philippines. hehe, dunno how it's called, eh..


so that's my wishlist for now. just off the top of my head so i may or may not add more in the coming days.. ;p


Happy Christmas every one!



xo,

leadership and random thoughts

sooo swamped with monitoring tasks and developmental projects that I don't have enough time to write something "decent" here. how in the world could i finish three projects all at the same time? but then i realized, this is yet another challenge. and besides, i'm slated to resign early next month/year so i guess i just have to consider these projects as my "last hurrah..." that decision to withdraw from the company was indeed a tough decision to make. i was dilly-dallying for weeks and i'm just so happy that everything's crystal-clear now. thanks to my two good friends-slash-classmates, Krizz and Cookie, for helping me reach a verdict. this is indeed a risk to take so i hope everything will go just as i planned. ^^

so what else have i got aside from those random thoughts. well, i have here a list of inspiring/motivating tidbits of leadership wisdom. got them from the leadership materials regularly sent to our department. I thought they're worth sharing because they could be used in any aspects of life. Whether you are a leader, a mere neophyte in the work force, or even a student, you could relate to it...




"Do not let what you cannot do interfere with what you can do."
When attempting to do anything new, voices inside us will whisper "No, don't do it." Those who give up listen to such voices; those who persevere ignore it. When it comes to making big and bold changes, either in our lives or our careers, there will always be those around us telling us no; it is up to us to follow our own inner yes.

"Talk does not cook rice."
As this Chinese proverb implies, you must do more than talk about what you want to do next; you have to take action to make it happen. Large organizations fail not because of lack of good intention, but for lack of effective execution. The same applies to us. We fail to move from thinking and talking to actually acting.

"He who has no fire within himself cannot warm others." You need to have passion for what you do. Otherwise no one will follow you. This is critical for anyone seeking to build a business or start a new career. You need to radiate a passion about what you do so that others can feel and share it with you. Entrepreneurs need passion to attract capital; job seekers need passion to convince employers of their worthiness.

"I like to see a man proud of the place in which he lives," said Abraham Lincoln. "I like to see a man live so that his place will be proud of him."



Xo,

inspiring friday!

ending the weekend with an inspiring video... thanks boss for always sharing with us your wisdom!





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also,got this message from "Vessels of Honor" as yesterday's advice. it's a very timely quote since I myself have been in search for something these past few days.. right now, am clueless. but i greatly hope that with the grace of God, I'd find something which is of great significance...


"the search for significance is the most significant search of mankind. But if our significance is found in insignificant things, our search is itself insignificant."



Xo,

update

just a quick entry.. changed the template again since i realized that the previous one does not include the DATE on which the entry was published.. so sad, i really loved that template.. anyway, i settled for this.. will be blogging about NOVEMBER, my birthmonth, soon =)

xoxo.

almost 26

on sunday, i'm gonna be 26! another year of my life would come to an end real soon again. i'm having mixed feelings actually. i'm sad. but, i'm not sad because i'm a year older. i AM sad because i feel as if there were a lot of things/time that i wasted during my twenty-fifth year..at the same time, i AM also happy because i have another whole new year to do the things that i have to do and experience the things that i missed out in the yesteryears...

Twenty-six.

such my age!

a long-lost friend said i'm old now. she kept on teasing me by calling me "ate" or "lola." thing is, i'm just a year older than she is. and when i reminded her of her age, she just said that she doesn't feel like it!

then i realized, why do people make CHRONOLOGICAL age such a big deal when it's a normal part of our existence? i actually feel sorry for her. i also feel luckier because unlike her, i am willing to face reality; i do not delude myself to thinking that i still haven't aged so i could still act like i did some years ago..also, i feel bad for this person because she doesn't realize the good things that are in store for her; she would've had them had she broken herself free from complacency and the thinking that she's still indeed young..

but then again, we all have our own ways of living this life. i cannot impose on others what i think is/are right ... i just hope, people like her would soon realize that age is nothing but an indication of how long we are living, that life is not about the number of years we spend on earth but how we spend it.

life's too short for everything. and so the moment opportunity knocks, you should open the door. because surely, there would be a lot of things to learn from, a lot of moments to experience and a vast horizon to explore once you did...

anyway, advance happy birthday to ME! ^^..

P.S.

hopefully, i won't get sick. been suffering from sore throat since last night and now am feverish.. still, thank you Lord for another fresh year to re-invent and re-evaluate my life.

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korean film

First of all, Happy MONDAY!!!



This was advertised by our company last Sept.. too bad I was not able to watch them. I'll just blog the promo poster here so that I'd remember to watch them and to make known to others these movies as well... I've always loved Korean TV series and I'm pretty sure that their flicks are also must-see's on their own rights. Period/ historical films are, in particular, very poignant! I hope you'd also find time to see their flicks...

Movies have always been a way for us to learn more about a country's culture. I'm positive that these movies would help boost our knowledge about one of the most historical countries in Asia, South Korea. =)


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Here's the list of the feature movies:

1. Barking Dogs Never Bite
2. Sa-kwa
3. Old Boy
4. Forbidden Quest
5. Driving with My Wife's Lover
6. The Show Must Go On
7. Beyond the Years

winner =)

RULE: To accept this award, here are the rules. Post it on your blog together with the name of the person who has granted the award, and his/her blog link. Pass the awrd to 15 other blogs that you've newly discovered. Remember to contact the blogger to let them know they have been chosen for this award.

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To my fellow blogger/sister here in blogspot, jhaney, thanks for sharing with me this award. I may not have a lot of readers, but i'm happy to have been blessed with followers/ blogger friends like you. Thanks sis!

Now, I'm sharing this award to the following people:

weng

melai

krizz

emote queen

kat

marc

*could only come up with 6 bloggers, though =)

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thank you one again, jhaney. I'm capping off my night now, opps, morning na pala, hehe..

on prioritizing

since prioritizing tasks is difficult for me, i'm posting this set of tips that was taught to us some months ago.. i was reminded of it when i rummaged through my disorganized desk a couple of mintes ago. hope that this would be helpful to all those who, like me, are always on the verge of breaking down because of multiple tasks, haha!

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In the days before modern plumbing, families put their battered tin bath in front of the fire, filled it with hot water, and took turns to wash away the weeks grime. As baby always went in last, a tired mum was at risk of throwing the baby out with the dirty bathwater, as she couldnt see the good from the bad.


Prioritising Work Tip #1 A tired, emotional brain is not best placed to make decisions – this is when the baby gets thrown out with the bathwater. Good decisions are made by alert, objective minds, so make an effort to keep your energy levels up and your stress levels down.

Prioritising Work Tip #2 Know what’s important – learn to distinguish the baby from the bathwater. Ask yourself what’s important, and what’s urgent. Take pressure off and make good prioritising decisions by creating a list of questions to ask yourself when deciding what you should be doing and when.

Prioritising Work Tip #3 If you’re still struggling to separate the baby and the bathwater, maybe you need help. Help can come from anywhere – from your manager, your peers, your partner (or optician!). Someone with clearer sight or more experience may provide you with the insight and objectivity you were lacking. It’s okay to ask!.

Learn from history how to prioritize tasks better and don’t throw the baby out with the bathwater!



--By Lyndsay SwintonOwner, Management for the Rest of Us (http://www.mftrou.com/prioritizing-tasks.html)

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quote for this choose-day

(From my boss) Keep this in mind to help you enjoy life to its fullest:


"Some people walk in the rain, others just get wet." ---Roger Miller


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30 Should Have's and Should Know's

in my futile attempt to keep this blog breathing, i decided to share something "girly". it is an article or rather a list of what every woman should have done and know by the time she's 30.. i honestly think that it's a good read for women of all ages though. so let me share with you now this tidbit of girl/woman thing:


30 Things Every Woman Should Have and Should Know by the Time She's 30

By 30, you should have:

1. One old boyfriend you can imagine going back to and one who reminds you of how far you’ve come.
2. A decent piece of furniture not previously owned by anyone else in your family.
3. Something perfect to wear if the employer or man of your dreams wants to see you in an hour.
4. A purse, a suitcase and an umbrella you’re not ashamed to be seen carrying.
5. A youth you’re content to move beyond.
6. A past juicy enough that you’re looking forward to retelling it in your old age.
7. The realization that you are actually going to have an old age—and some money set aside to help fund it.
8. An e-mail address, a voice mailbox and a bank account—all of which nobody has access to but you.
9. A résumé that is not even the slightest bit padded.
10. One friend who always makes you laugh and one who lets you cry.
11. A set of screwdrivers, a cordless drill and a black lace bra.
12. Something ridiculously expensive that you bought for yourself, just because you deserve it.
13. The belief that you deserve it.
14. A skin-care regimen, an exercise routine and a plan for dealing with those few other facets of life that don’t get better after 30.
15. A solid start on a satisfying career, a satisfying relationship and all those other facets of life that do get better.


By 30, you should know:

1. How to fall in love without losing yourself.
2. How you feel about having kids.
3. How to quit a job, break up with a man and confront a friend without ruining the friendship.
4. When to try harder and when to walk away.
5. How to kiss in a way that communicates perfectly what you would and wouldn’t like to happen next.
6. The names of: the secretary of state, your great-grandmother and the best tailor in town.
7. How to live alone, even if you don’t like to.
8. How to take control of your own birthday.
9. That you can’t change the length of your calves, the width of your hips or the nature of your parents.
10. That your childhood may not have been perfect, but it’s over.
11. What you would and wouldn’t do for money or love.
12. That nobody gets away with smoking, drinking, doing drugs or not flossing for very long.
13. Who you can trust, who you can’t and why you shouldn’t take it personally.
14. Not to apologize for something that isn’t your fault.
15. Why they say life begins at 30.

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While reading through it, I realized that I still have a long way to go. But what the heck, I'm just 25, I have all the time to do all these and more =)